It's a legitimate request, so don't feel upset about it. There are more ways to write it than just as one perfectly abled person being held over a disabled person in some way, with all of the angst falling on the perfectly abled person. This is a bad place to be made to feel bad about requesting something.
(frozen comment) Re: Please, don't say anything. Even the subject line is full of fail.
(Anonymous) 2011-03-17 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)